What I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Blog as a Mom

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What I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Blog as a Mom

Introduction

When I started blogging as a mom, I thought it would be simple: write some posts during nap time, share a few ideas, and slowly build an audience. I imagined sipping coffee while typing my thoughts, occasionally checking email and watching the page views roll in.

Reality? Not quite.

The truth is, blogging is a real job—one that demands your time, your heart, and a good dose of resilience. But it’s also one of the most fulfilling creative outlets I’ve ever pursued. In this post, I’m sharing what I wish I had known before starting my blog. Whether you’re a brand-new mom blogger or just blog-curious, this is the honest advice I wish someone had given me.

And if you want to skip ahead and start strong, don’t forget to.

Blogging Isn’t Easy

Let’s start with the truth: blogging is not easy.

There’s a myth that bloggers make money just by writing a few posts. But behind every successful blog is:

A learning curve filled with trial and error

Tech hiccups and plugin chaos

Hours spent promoting posts on social media

Doubts, comparisons, and imposter syndrome

And as a mom, you’re juggling all of that with childcare, housework, and the emotional load of motherhood.

I had to learn to treat blogging like a part-time business—not just a hobby. That mindset shift alone made a big difference.

Time Wasters I Faced

In my first six months, I wasted so much time on things that didn’t move the needle:

Tweaking my logo for hours: No one cared about the font. I should’ve spent that time writing content.

Reading every blogging article but taking no action: Learning is good—but only if you do something with it.

Overthinking my niche: I changed blog topics three times before I just picked one I loved.

Trying to be on every platform: Instagram, Pinterest, Facebook, Twitter—I was exhausted. Now I stick to what works for me.

Avoiding these time traps would’ve saved me months of spinning my wheels.

What Grew My Traffic

Once I got out of my own way, here’s what actually helped my blog grow:

1. SEO Basics

I started learning basic search engine optimization—keywords, headings, and how Google ranks content. I took a beginner course on that made SEO way less scary.

2. Consistent Posting

Instead of writing perfect posts, I aimed for helpful ones. I created a content calendar and committed to posting once per week.

3. Pinterest Strategy

Pinterest brought in my first big traffic bump. I designed pins using and joined group boards.

4. Email List with ConvertKit

I created a simple lead magnet and used to start growing my list. It took time, but now it drives traffic and sales every week.

5. Useful Blog Posts

I stopped writing personal stories and started answering real questions my readers had—like “How do I start a blog as a stay-at-home mom?” or “Best budget planners for moms.”

Sanity-Saving Tools

These tools were lifesavers as a blogging mom:

SiteGround: Reliable hosting with great support. Perfect for beginners.

ConvertKit: Email marketing made simple. Tags, automations, and beautiful opt-ins.

Canva: My go-to for graphics, printables, and pins.

Trello: Organize blog tasks and content calendar.

Pomofocus: A free timer that helps me stay focused during nap-time work sessions.

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Mindset Shifts

Blogging success isn’t just about strategy—it’s about mindset. Here are the biggest shifts I made:

Done is better than perfect: Publish, learn, improve.

Treat your blog like a business: Set goals, track progress, and invest where it counts.

Don’t compare: Someone else’s highlight reel is not your starting line.

Celebrate tiny wins: First subscriber? Big deal. First affiliate click? High five.

Patience pays off: Most bloggers quit too soon. Keep going.

Advice to New Moms

If you’re just starting your blog journey, here’s my honest advice:

Start small: Pick one niche, one platform, and one content type to begin.

Invest in a course: A good blogging course from can save you months of confusion.

Use SiteGround: Easy hosting setup and top-notch support.

Build your email list from day one: Even if it grows slowly, it’s worth it.

Ask for help: Join mom blogging groups. Don’t isolate yourself.

Give yourself grace: Some weeks you’ll be amazing. Some weeks you won’t write a thing. Both are okay.

Putting It All Together

Blogging as a mom is not a shortcut to easy money—but it is a powerful way to share your voice, build something of your own, and earn an income on your terms.

I wish someone had told me that:

It’s okay to go slow

You don’t have to do it all at once

And your story matters, even in a crowded internet

Here’s your next step:

Set up your blog with

Start growing your list with

Learn the basics with a

Grab your free

You don’t have to be perfect—you just have to start.

You’ve got this, mama.

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